get stuck with, end up having to deal with
我摊上了我也不怕呀
If it happens to me, I’m not afraid.
— Hi, Mom (2021)
你还没摊上呢
It hasn't happened to you yet.
摊上这么个男的离婚了
I divorced a guy like that.
— 热辣滚烫 (2024)
就是谁让我摊上斌斌这样的战友呢
It’s just my luck to have a comrade like Binbin.
— 三峡好人 (2006)